Caught my eye....a letter to an abuser in the Guardian...

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/mar/31/a-letter-to-my-uncle-the-convicted-paedophile

Similarities with our culture....the perpetrator (this time convicted) still thinks they are the "victim". And the family suffer as a consequence; although they tend to avoid him rather than "stand by him" and blame the actual victim, which is a positive...he doesnt think he's done wrong - but they know he has.